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This is how Non-Monogamy Help started. Every other week I respond to a letter which is anonymised and write a response. Check out the most recent columns below, use the search bar, or check out the tags below.

Anchors are not trust

January 20th, 2023|

I am a 28 year old female and I've been dating my boyfriend for more than 3 years. When we met, he was about to move to another country in months, but we still started dating and fell in love with each other very quickly and in a very intense way. I was not expecting this at the time, I

Breakup boundaries

January 6th, 2023|

My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it without putting any labels on it. As time has gone

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Fighting for control

December 23rd, 2022|

My partner and I was considering playing solo in the lifestyle, but our first attempt was unsuccessful and left us

Trapped in guilt

December 9th, 2022|

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I've always been fine with 3somes, him sleeping with men, but about

Relationship style fix

October 28th, 2022|

So me and my girlfriend were polyamorous from the beginning, and she was the one who had taken a

Anxious to see interaction

October 14th, 2022|

I have been sleeping with my neighbour since Oct last year and a strong connection has grown. Neither of us is

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