After writing a few successful articles about non-monogamy and receiving some private messages in other forums asking for advice, I decided to try and start a non-monogamy advice column in January 2017. I produced fortnightly columns for two years as letters came in.
And in January 2019, I decided to launch a podcast version of the column, given I had got so many letters. Since then, I’ve had so many different chats with different people featured below.
In December 2020, I moved away from Medium (because of the paywall and difficulties it brought people to read every week), to my own website at nonmonogamyhelp.com.
In June 2022, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy was published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
For a good long while I have been working with Kathy Slaughter, LCSW who wrote the forward to my book. They were previously known as the anonymous therapist with 10 years experience I’ve worked with.
In December 2022, I released this new website design to improve speed on mobile.