Privacy Policy

Who I am

I am Lola Phoenix and I am the author of this column. My website address is: and Non-Monogamy Help is an advice column and podcast for people in non-monogamous, polyamorous and/or open relationships.

Personal data


I currently do not have any advertising pixels installed on the website, but if you use any of the login features, Ghost will likely utilise cookies for these.

Embedded content from other websites

Articles on this site may include embedded content (e.g. videos, images, articles, etc.). Embedded content from other websites behaves in the exact same way as if the visitor has visited the other website.

These websites may collect data about you, use cookies, embed additional third-party tracking, and monitor your interaction with that embedded content, including tracking your interaction with the embedded content if you have an account and are logged in to that website.


Who I share your data with

No data from analytics is shared with any third party and is only viewed to improve the website performance.

All data of Patreon subscribers is kept on Patreon and all data of my email subscribers is kept on MailerLite. If/when I change email programs, I may upload that data to a new platform, but I never share it with any third parties.

If you send in a question for the column, that question and my response is sent to Kathy Slaughter via email, but it does not include any of your contact information or your name.

How long I retain your data

I retain anonymous analytics data for as long as it's permitted in Google Analytics, but this is not personalised.

What rights you have over your data

You can also request that I erase any personal data I hold about you. This does not include any data I am obliged to keep for administrative, legal, or security purposes. Contact if you would like information about your data.

Contact information

If you have any questions about this, please contact me at