Don't Ask Don't Tell Ended New Relationship

This person ended a promising new relationship because their primary partner couldn't tolerate any mention of them, creating an unsustainable dynamic.

Don't Ask Don't Tell Ended New Relationship

This person ended a promising new relationship because their primary partner couldn't tolerate any mention of them, creating an unsustainable dynamic.

Episode 172 - Forcing Kitchen Table

Metas don't owe you friendship and how being too involved in their drama makes it worse.

Feeling Aversion Instead of Compersion

After years in a "monogam-ish" relationship, this person struggles with visceral aversion when their wife starts seriously dating someone new.

Episode 171 - Deconstructing Monogamy

Don't just follow the cultural script and behave like you're basically a monogamous couple with disposable arm candy.

Hiding Another Relationship

When a new partner hides an open relationship and child and pressures you into considering a triad you don't want, it's not a good sign.

Episode 170 - Dating Serial Monogamists

All relationships end anyway. Some just come with a clearer expiration date than others.

Partner Wants Kink Play But Hides From Polyamory

Noticing a contradiction when a monogamous partner wants to touch others at kink events but won't engage with metamours?

Episode 169 - Marriage and Polyamory

There is one throne and one person who can sit in that throne, and right now that's you—but you can be replaced.