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Considering polyamory

Whether you’re considering it or your partner has asked you about it, here are the entries we have for folks considering polyamory for themselves or their current relationships — both the good and the bad scenarios.

Episode 63: Visualising Your Partner

What if you can’t see your partner with someone else in your head without feeling terrible? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is one thing that you didn’t get as a child that you want to now have as

Giving up a marriage

I'm a married man of 30 years, and have made the decision that the rest of my years, which hopefully amount to a couple of decades will be spent pursuing non-monogamous relationship, polyamory lifestyle. Am I being selfish, or do I need to just give myself the permission

Episode 60: Temporarily Open

Can opening your relationship temporarily work to address an incompatibility? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: How do you prefer to be broken up with? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. https://anchor.fm/

Rejecting someone slowly

So my best friend is polyamorous, I’m monogamous, and (I’m 99.9% sure) my girlfriend is monogamous. (We’re all girls by the way) My best friend Just told me that she has a crush on my and my girlfriend, we’re all best friends. I don’t

Not satisfied with secondary

Not too long ago I met my ideal man, but he has a girlfriend I know he loves very much. But as of our second meet he told me she is asexual and they are trying for a "open" relationship because of his personal need for intimacy and

The definition of love

So I’m monogamous one hundred percent I want no one else but my man, he thinks monogamy is not natural, and sex is sex and primal and you can be in a relationship with one person and fuck someone else and that’s ok. Well to me it is

Episode 54: Sacrificing Too Much

When you're trying your best with polyamory but it feels like if you don't get it right, you may get divorced. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Should you sacrifice for your relationship? What is worth sacrificing? Listen

Lapsed desire

When my wife and I first started seeing each other, our sex life was great. It was new and exciting, if not slightly more subdued than to what I was normally accustomed. After we moved in together, it seemed like our sex life became far less active than before, and

With or without permission

Me and my wife we both know each other from 2015 and in September 2019 we got married. Now she’s in Canada and for her studies and I’m in India waiting for this pandemic to be over so that I’ll be able to be with her. Well

Episode 50: What is Love?

What happens when your partner keeps hinting that they want monogamy but you're not even sure if you've ever felt love at all? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If you were to get a job offer in