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Responsibility and metamours

What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.

Metamour makes all the rules

My partner J and I have been dating almost a year, though due to our schedules/long distance we only hang out 1–2 weekends on average a month. We call and text often. We tell each other we love each other. J has a long-term (several years) nesting partner,

Energy for everyone but you

What I’m struggling with is that my partner has very little energy and is anti-social with PTSD attached. Because of this, I am the primary caretaker of our daughter and I also tend my partners daily needs. I become insecure when my partner manages to muster the energy to

Episode 23: Abusive Metamours

What happens when you feel pressured to associate with an abusive metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. We’re also introducing discussion topics this week. 💡Discussion Topic: What slightly unhealthy things feel attractive in a partner? How might this relate to your relationships

Unethical hierarchies in polyamory

I have been currently investing my time in a polygamous relationship. My partner and I have been talking since February and I would say officially together since March as we are now fluid bonded and consider ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend. I am however his secondary partner and therefore our relationship

Episode 21: Walking on Eggshells

A metamour’s temper has this individual walking on eggshells. Is it because they aren’t doing enough? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. We’re also introducing discussion topics this week. 💡Discussion Topic - What negative character flaws do you fear other people

Episode 18: Monster of a Metamour

You don’t get along with your metamour and what’s more — you think they might be unhealthy for your partner. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen to Episode 18. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple,

What to do with a controlling metamour

I’ve been in a non monogamous relationship with my girlfriend (A) for almost a year now and I have been having some major issues with her other partner (T). It's a long story but I really need some advice on this before I make a decision on

Episode 9: Winning Gold Medals

Are you giving your partner a gold medal for doing something they should be doing anyway? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-9---Winning-Gold-Medals-e1cgben You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or,

Episode 6: Polyam in the Middle

What happens when your kitchen table polyamory attempt goes awry and you’re left with two loves who can’t see eye to eye. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-6-Polyam-in-the-Middle-e1cgbej You should also be able to

Too good to be triad

I’ve been in a relationship for almost nine years, well, not exactly in 2017 we broke up. After the birth of our child life became hell, we had tons and tons of arguments, but the worst part for me at least was that she did not want any more