General Polyam Writings

I’ve written a few articles in general about non-monogamous relationships which include things I’ve learned and address common pitfalls in most polyamory advice as well as dealing with mental health issues while being polyamorous or trying polyamory.

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The hierarchy polyamorous people don’t talk enough about

Reading Time: 6 minutes This content is 5 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.Hierarchies are seen as an inherently negative thing within many polyamorous subcultures, but very myopically. There’s a focus on having …

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9 strategies for counteracting toxic parenting in non-monogamy

Reading Time: 14 minutes This content is 5 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.In a previous article, I talked about nine different ways that toxic parenting can impact the communication you have in …

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Thirteen things I wish I’d learned before choosing non-monogamy

Reading Time: 23 minutes This content is 6 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.When you first learn about polyamory or non-monogamy, what most people call ‘open relationships’, you’ll likely be directed to several …

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Non-monogamy and fear

Reading Time: 11 minutes This content is 6 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.When happening upon polyamory, most people are referred to the same sort of material. The book “Opening Up” is often …

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