I’ve written a few articles in general about non-monogamous relationships which include things I’ve learned and address common pitfalls in most polyamory advice as well as dealing with mental health issues while being polyamorous or trying polyamory.
Reading Time: 43 minutes This content is 3 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.So, you’ve decided to give polyamory or some form of non-monogamy a shot but you’re not quite sure where to …
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Reading Time: 5 minutes This content is 3 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.When I tell people that I am not monogamous or I try to explain polyamory, the first question they tend …
Reading Time: 9 minutes This content is 5 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.This is the second post in a series of blogs about the most common advice offered to polyamorous people, specifically …
Reading Time: 6 minutes This content is 5 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.This is the first post in a series of blogs I plan to do about the most common advice offered …
Reading Time: 25 minutes This content is 5 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.This article was written in 2017, so it is possible my perspective has shifted since then however the crux of …
Reading Time: 6 minutes This content is 5 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.Hierarchies are seen as an inherently negative thing within many polyamorous subcultures, but very myopically. There’s a focus on having …
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Reading Time: 14 minutes This content is 6 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.In a previous article, I talked about nine different ways that toxic parenting can impact the communication you have in …
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Reading Time: 11 minutes This content is 6 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.When reading the opening preface of a self-help book makes you cry, that’s when you buy the book. And that …
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Reading Time: 23 minutes This content is 6 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.When you first learn about polyamory or non-monogamy, what most people call ‘open relationships’, you’ll likely be directed to several …
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Reading Time: 11 minutes This content is 7 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question.When happening upon polyamory, most people are referred to the same sort of material. The book “Opening Up” is often …
