Insecurity and Needs Archives - Non-Monogamy Help

How do you manage your own needs with others, boundaries and the feeling that you’re not ‘enough’ for someone? These articles are for people struggling to balance and communicate their needs.

Anchors are not trust

Lola Phoenix2022-12-01T13:12:30+00:00

Anchors are not trustLola Phoenix2022-12-01T13:12:30+00:00

Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal

Lola Phoenix2022-12-26T17:02:53+00:00

Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a SignalLola Phoenix2022-12-26T17:02:53+00:00

Fighting for control

Lola Phoenix2022-12-23T17:00:00+00:00

Fighting for controlLola Phoenix2022-12-23T17:00:00+00:00

Trapped in guilt

Lola Phoenix2022-12-09T17:00:00+00:00

Trapped in guiltLola Phoenix2022-12-09T17:00:00+00:00

Episode 96: Needing Distance After Dates

Lola Phoenix2022-11-30T09:55:10+00:00

Episode 96: Needing Distance After DatesLola Phoenix2022-11-30T09:55:10+00:00

Episode 91: Hierarchies and Ethics

Lola Phoenix2022-09-23T17:00:00+00:00

Episode 91: Hierarchies and EthicsLola Phoenix2022-09-23T17:00:00+00:00

Episode 90: Breakup News

Lola Phoenix2022-09-02T17:00:00+00:00

Episode 90: Breakup NewsLola Phoenix2022-09-02T17:00:00+00:00

Trouble accepting polyamory

Lola Phoenix2022-07-29T17:00:00+00:00

Trouble accepting polyamoryLola Phoenix2022-07-29T17:00:00+00:00

Episode 87: Showering Rules

Lola Phoenix2022-07-15T17:00:00+00:00

Episode 87: Showering RulesLola Phoenix2022-07-15T17:00:00+00:00

Left out of a thruple

Lola Phoenix2022-07-15T17:00:00+00:00

Left out of a thrupleLola Phoenix2022-07-15T17:00:00+00:00