Relationship Progression

Now that you have your relationship(s), where does it go from here? How do you deal with marriage or raising a family?

Changing agreements

Reading Time: 3 minutes My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We’ve been practicing polyam off and on throughout our marriage. Recently we decided to open up. We made agreements and decided on our relationship dynamic. He met someone and didn’t say anything. I finally figured it out and asked directly about her. He said she …

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Episode 79: Outside Veto

Reading Time: 10 minutes Sometimes when your partner wants non-monogamy you can be left feeling like you’ve failed or not done enough. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: How do you feel about giving your friends details about your relationships? Listen here on or on Anchor. Visit the Anchor website to find where else …

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Managing a triad

Reading Time: 4 minutes My wife and I have been together for 20 years, being married 14 of those years. The last 12 years my wife and I have been in The Swinging lifestyle and in that time you have grown. We have always talked about polyamorous relationship whether it be another couple or single and a year-and-a-half ago …

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Polyfidelity by choice

Reading Time: 2 minutes This content is 3 years old which means my opinions or advice on this issue may have changed. Please, read this page keeping its age in your mind and feel free to re-ask a similar question. Almost everything I read is about a couple opening up their primary relationship. There is nothing written about why …

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