Forbidding an Ex
Forbidding your partner from dating an ex when starting out in polyamory may feel like a good idea, but it's not doing what you think it is.
Topic
Switching, closing and abuse
These entries are for those trying to figure out the right time to break up, regretting opening or wanting to close the relationship and also for those who may be in dangerous situations.
Pausing Other Relationships
When a dyad pauses one partner's outside relationship, it often causes real problems. Is it ever actually okay? Let's explore this together.
Trapped in a Thruple
I'm trapped in a thruple where I lost my independence and discovered infidelity. I love them, but I'm struggling with anxiety and heartbreak.
Pretend Affair
Is it ethical to stage a fake affair for excitement when your partner knows it's pretend but the third party doesn't realize it's all an act?
Regretting Polyamory
When your nervous system is overwhelmed, should you pause polyamory? Navigating love across multiple relationships and managing anxiety.
Taking a Break in Polyamory
Struggling with polyamory while living with one partner and dating another? Explore whether taking a break from non-monogamy is right for you.
No Longer Nesting
Moving from nesting to long distance in polyamory? It's normal to grieve this change, even when you've planned for it together.
No Longer Nesting
Navigating polyamory when your nesting partner moves in with someone else? Here's how to handle the grief and adjust to long distance.
Episode 141 - Making Amends
Everybody messes up in relationships but making amends isn’t always a one sided action. You have to work together to rebuild trust.
Episode 139 - Boundaries vs Rules
If you frequently don’t follow your boundaries with action, your brain could respond with anxiety because of the self-sabotage.