Books
I have written several books about non-monogamy through Jessica Kingsley Publishers primarily. You can read more about them below.
The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy
I was approached by Jessica Kingsley Publishers in 2021 about a potential book and I considered putting something together that would cover some of the basic information that I felt I was repeating to people who wrote questions in.
Who it's for
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy is designed for people who are both new to non-monogamy and have been in non-monogamous relationships for awhile but maybe struggle with anxiety. I actually believe that a lot of people will experience anxiety regardless of whether or not they have any other mental health issues.
Where you can find it
In June 2022, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy was published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. It is currently available:
- On the JKP website in North America and the UK/Europe.
- On Amazon and other online retailers.
- You can also find it in most major bookstores or ask an independent bookstore to order it.
Audiobook
The Anxious Person's Guide is also available as an audiobook through the following places:
Or search locally in your audiobook provider and ask if they will stock it!
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The Non-Monogamy Journal
After producing the Anxious Guide and producing the podcast and column for a few more years, I noticed that there were a lot of times where people hadn't considered different types of scenarios and therefore were focusing on managing emotions and also deciding things for themselves.
Who it's for
Anyone who wants to test their boundaries and figure out how they might respond to different scenarios could try this interactive journal. It's not explicitly for people starting out in polyamory or people who are seasoned and it can be done as a couple, more or as an individual. If you're looking for ways to spark conversation or a way to journal out your thoughts, the book works well for many.
Where you can find it
In January 2025, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy was published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. It is currently available:
The Non-Monogamy Journal is currently available to order on the Jessica Kingsley website and will be available on the JKP website at the end of November but is available through places like Waterstones, Amazon and other retailers.
- On the JKP website in North America and the UK/Europe.
- On Amazon and other online retailers.
- You can also find it in most major bookstores or ask an independent bookstore to order it.
Discount code
If you would like a 10% coupon, join my email newsletter list. I only email you the column or podcast once a week every Wednesday before it's released to the public.