HSV 2 and polyamory
HSV-2 diagnosis creates tension in your open relationship. Navigate protecting yourself while preserving the life you've built together.
Lola Phoenix
Episode 65: No Longer Primary
You were once their priority, but now you're not. How do you fight apathy when the person you want to build a life with is drifting away?
Hiding partners from each other
Your monogamous partner hid their polyamory. Learn how to rebuild trust and navigate this relationship betrayal together.
Episode 64: What Rules to Have
"You want rules to protect your relationship, but will they actually work? Find out if the boundaries you're planning might backfire."
Fidelity and grief
You hid who you slept with during separation. She found out and is hurt. Can you rebuild trust after lying about infidelity?
Episode 63: Visualising Your Partner
You can't picture your partner with someone else without feeling awful—and you're not sure if opening up is even possible for you.
Rules about love
When your love rules backfire: Why strict boundaries in relationships sometimes push partners away instead of bringing you closer together.
Episode 62: More Metamour Toxicity
Your partner's other partner isn't good for your metamour, but you're unsure what role you should actually play in their relationship drama.
Cheating and polyamory
Your fiancé cheated repeatedly and now wants to open the relationship. Can you move forward from this, or risk more pain?
Episode 61: PTSD and Polyamory
You're trying polyamory again after a traumatic first experience, but old wounds keep surfacing. Is it worth pushing through, or should you stop?