When Transparency Requests Feel Like Control
Seeking transparency in a polyamorous relationship, but constant questions make your partner feel controlled. Finding the balance.
Lola Phoenix
Episode 174 - Kitchen Table Parallel Polyamory
Is it possible to be kitchen table polyam and also have parallel relationships? Absolutely. There is no rule. Listen to Episode 174.
Friend Confessed Feelings and Now Partner Wants to Open Up
After a friend confessed feelings, this person's partner agreed to try non-monogamy, but dishonesty about a kiss threatens the whole arrangement.
Episode 173 - Polyamory Chicken
Your brain's lying: slowing down their relationship won't make yours safer. Join us on Non-Monogamy Help Episode 173 to explore polyamory fears.
Don't Ask Don't Tell Ended New Relationship
I ended a promising new polyamorous relationship because my primary partner couldn't handle hearing about them. Here's what happened.
Don't Ask Don't Tell Ended New Relationship
Someone ended a new relationship because their primary partner couldn't tolerate any mention of it, making it unsustainable.
Episode 172 - Forcing Kitchen Table
Metas don't owe you friendship, and getting too involved in their drama only makes things worse. Listen to this week's episode now.
Feeling Aversion Instead of Compersion
After years in a "monogam-ish" relationship, this person struggles with visceral aversion when their wife starts seriously dating someone new.
Episode 171 - Deconstructing Monogamy
Don't just follow the cultural script. On Episode 171, we deconstruct monogamy and challenge you to think deeper about your relationship choices.
Hiding Another Relationship
When a new partner hides an open relationship and child and pressures you into considering a triad you don't want, it's not a good sign.