Episode 27: Signs of Seriousness
Unsure if your long-term relationship is heading somewhere serious? Learn how to tell and when to have the talk with your partner.
Lola Phoenix
Metamour makes all the rules
Your partner's other partner is making rules affecting your relationship. Learn how to navigate this polyamory challenge respectfully.
Episode 26: Flirting or Cheating
Your partner has always flirted in ways you'd call cheating—now they want to open the relationship. How do you move forward from here?
Polyamory as a treatment for infidelity
Your partner wants polyamory after infidelity. Is an open relationship really the answer to rebuilding trust and fixing what went wrong?
Episode 25: First Time Jitters
Your wife had an emotional affair. Now you're allowing physical ones. But is this really protecting your marriage or avoiding the real issue?
Energy for everyone but you
You're the caregiver while your partner has energy for dating. How do you address this imbalance without damaging the relationship?
Episode 24: Rules Won’t Save You
You're afraid your partner will leave, so you keep adding more rules. But will stricter rules actually keep them from going?
Are your needs ‘reasonable’?
Worried your relationship needs are too much? Learn what's actually reasonable to ask for from your partner—and how to communicate without triangulation.
Episode 23: Abusive Metamours
When your partner's new partner is abusive, how do you set boundaries? Tips for protecting your relationship in this difficult situation.
Unethical hierarchies in polyamory
Explore unethical hierarchies in polyamory: when secondary relationships are limited by primary-partner rules. Is this fair to everyone involved?