When non-monogamy hurts
Caught in a non-monogamous relationship and feeling jealous or betrayed? Learn how to navigate the emotional fallout and protect your heart.
Lola Phoenix
Cheating in polyamory
He's hiding who he's seeing in your polyamorous relationship. It's the dishonesty, not the dating itself, breaking your trust.
Not believing in monogamy
You never thought you'd want monogamy, but now you do — and your partner just told you he doesn't believe in it. Can you two find middle ground?
Rules and non-monogamy
You banned kissing to avoid intimacy, but feel left out during group sex. Does the rule actually address what's triggering you?
When is the right time to end it?
Catching feelings for someone taken? Learn when it's time to walk away or if there's hope for something real—and how to stop wasting your time.
Bare minimum in relationships
You've been giving your all for years, but your partner won't tell you what they actually want. How do you know if you're asking for too much?
Ultimatums and polyamory
Your wife gave you an ultimatum: close the marriage or end your other relationship. Here's how to navigate this polyamory crisis.
Treating “secondaries” poorly
Dating men in open relationships? Learn how to advocate for your needs when you're a "secondary" partner with little say in the rules.
Incompatibility and polyamory
You're monogamous and she's polyamorous -- you're nomadic and she's rooted in one place. Can this relationship actually work?
When should you express love?
Juggling feelings for three people? Discover when and how to express love across multiple relationships without causing hurt or confusion.