Is polyamory worth it?
Attracted to others while deeply loving your long-term partner? Explore if opening your relationship is worth the risk and what it means for your future together.
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When your partner blames you for cheating
Partner wanted non-monogamy but hid his involvement with others, then blamed you for being upset. The real issue? His dishonesty.
Getting over your partner sleeping with others
Struggling with jealousy in polyamory? Learn practical advice on managing insecurity and working through disagreements when your partner sleeps with others.
Bipolar disorder and polyamory
Your partner wants to explore polyamory, but bipolar disorder complicates things. Here's how to navigate opening your marriage thoughtfully.
If you’ve crossed a boundary
You crossed a boundary and now rules are changing. Learn how to move forward when agreements keep shifting in your relationship.
When you don’t want to open your relationship
Your partner just told you she's polyamorous and wants to open the relationship. You don't want that — so what are your actual options here?
Balancing imbalances in polyamory
Rebuild trust after toxic polyamory. Learn to overcome possessiveness and distrust to create healthier dynamics for everyone involved.
When someone else’s rules become yours
You agreed to safer sex rules with your lover's wife, but now they're affecting your other relationship. Whose boundaries are you protecting?
Don't ask, don't tell in polyamory
Stuck in a "don't ask, don't tell" polyamory setup? Learn how to move toward honesty without causing conflict in your open relationship.
Managing your partner’s emotions
Stop walking on eggshells. Learn how to handle your partner's insecurity without losing yourself when opening your relationship.