Media Curriculum Vitae
Lola Phoenix has over a decade of experience as a freelance writer and speaker focusing on sexuality, gender, LGBTQ history, disability, relationships, nutrition, mental health and death positivity both in writing and speaking.
Personal essays
- INTO - How Death Positivity Helps Me Mourn the Living
- INTO - Non Verbal Cues Are Crucial to Understanding Consent
- Medium - What fatphobia tells us about our fear of death
- Talk Poverty - I Couldn't Spend Money Like My Classmates. So I Tried To Eat Like Them.
- The Independent - Opinion: As an agender person, this is what going to a women's university taught me about all-women's spaces
- The Establishment - When You’re On The Autistic Spectrum, Consent Is Complicated
- The Mighty - What Society Tells Me as a Trans Disabled Person The Mighty
- LGBT History Month Magazine - Are you socially transitioned?
- Huffington Post - Journey Beyond the Binary Series
- Beyond the Binary - Lola Phoenix Would Be the Name
- Huffington Post- A Case of Cis Regret
- Vada Magazine - Are you socially transitioned into your gender role?
- Gay Star News - What do you do when you're 'not trans enough'?
Authored articles
- VICE - I Learned How to Permanently Remove Hair to Help Trans People Like Me
- Beyond the Binary - The Impact of the Gender Identity Clinic on Mental Health
Lectures and talks
The History of the Stonewall Riots Lecture
- June 2016 – LUSH Oxford Street
- Aug 2015 & Aug 2016 – BiCon
- Feb 2017 - Goldsmiths, University of London, Warwick University
- Feb 2018 - Imperial College London, Goldsmiths, Birkbeck
- 'The Stonewall Riots: How love kickstarted a revolution' - February 2018 - NerdNite
- Feb 2019 - University of Manchester, University of Sheffield, UCL
- Mar 2019 - London Pride Volunteers
- June 2019 - Science Museum Lates Sexuality
Panels and talks
- ‘The Gender Binary – and why it’s bullsh*t’ – June 2015 - NerdNite
- Queer Identity - Aderonke Apata and Lola Phoenix - Feb 2017 - Cambridge University
- Transgender Day of Visibility – March 2015 - LUSH Oxford Street
- Queer Newham - February 2019 - Queerness and Faith
- Participated in the NHS Transgender and non-binary network meeting – Dec 2015
Podcasts
- Lovecast 821 - Savage Lovecast
- Real Relationship Talk - Multiamory Podcast
- The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy - Multiamory Podcast
- The Anxiety and Non-Monogamy Episode -They Talk Sex
- Episode 83 - Fifty Shades of Gender
- My First Time: Polyamory - VICE
- Episode 11 - Queers & Co. Podcast
Video
"Why We Don't Need Another Diversity Talk" Film for The Unmistakables
Books
- Trans Voices: Becoming Who You Are
- Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
Articles
- Buzzfeed - This Is What It's Like Growing Up With No Gender
- The Independent - What's it like to be a Mx?
- The Independent - ‘How Pokemon Go is helping players tackle anxiety and depression’
- The Independent - What does non-binary mean?
- The Independent - Being non-binary in the UK 'feels like a hole in your chest where gender used to be'
- The Independent - An agender person is fundraising for breast reduction surgery after being refused by the NHS
- The Biscuit - “We’re Just Not Hung Up About Gender”: Bisexuality & Binary/Non-Binary Relationships
- Huffington Post - 8 Trans People Give Incredibly Moving Messages To Their Younger Selves
- The Gay UK - 'Not Trans Enough': The Cost of a Gendered Name
- The Daily Dot - Why this person is crowdfunding a breast reduction surgery
- VICE - Inside the Landmark, Long Overdue Study on Chest Binding
- Dazed – ‘Why does it take rape victims so long to speak out’
- The DeBrief – ‘The fascinating things I learnt about sex from an autistic person’
Magazines
- Attitude - There's No Hidden Agender
- Fabulous Magazine - The Rise of Gender Fluidity
Radio
- BBC Five Live – August 2015 – ‘Bisexuality and young people’
- BBC Radio London - October 2017 - 'Drivetime with Eddie Nestor: T-charge and pregnant people'
Television
- OMG! With Peaches Geldof – March 2011 – ‘Fame! Furries! Fetish!’