The "Heads Up" Rule
Learn why "heads up" rules often create more conflict than clarity and how to transition from permission-based agreements to healthy autonomy.
Topic
Considering polyamory
Whether you’re considering it or your partner has asked you about it, here are the entries we have for folks considering polyamory for themselves or their current relationships — both the good and the bad scenarios.
Episode 176 - Deciding on Polyamory
Trying to figure out if polyamory is for you while dealing with new relationship energy can be a significant struggle.
Episode 175 - Re-release
Sometimes when your partner wants non-monogamy you can be left feeling like you’ve failed or not done enough.
Friend Confessed Feelings and Now Partner Wants to Open Up
After a friend confessed feelings, this person's partner agreed to try non-monogamy, but dishonesty about a kiss threatens the whole arrangement.
Episode 171 - Deconstructing Monogamy
Don't just follow the cultural script and behave like you're basically a monogamous couple with disposable arm candy.
Doing Polyamory Just to Please A Partner
After a year of trying polyamory, are you genuinely interested in non-monogamy or just trying to keep your partner happy?
Episode 157 - Solo Not Celibate
Trying polyamory with a solo polyam person could be potentially difficult for a monogamous person.
Episode 156 - Polyamory Obsessed
How do you stop becoming just a little bit obsessed with reading about polyamory?
Episode 155 - Re-Release Hierarchies and Ethics
Prioritising a long term marriage is unethical to many people, but what do you if that’s genuinely what you want to do?
Partner Application
When asked to fill out a form for a relationship, it makes sense to be a little sceptical.