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Dating friends

Are friends of partners off limits? How do you navigate fears around your partner dating your friends? These are the entries about dating friends.

Rejecting someone slowly

So my best friend is polyamorous, I’m monogamous, and (I’m 99.9% sure) my girlfriend is monogamous. (We’re all girls by the way) My best friend Just told me that she has a crush on my and my girlfriend, we’re all best friends. I don’t

Lying by omission

My fiancé who I have been with for 15 years. Has asked if I would be in a open relationship. He says he has always thought this way but what really made him to bring it up was talking to his therapist… and he got a crush on a mutual

Crushing on a monogamous friend

I am a polyamorous non-binary man in a very happy three-year relationship with a another polyamorous man. This question isn’t about my partner, but rather about a monogamous friend I have named James. I met James about four months ago at a school event and, maybe blame NRE, but

Episode 47: Harem Boy

If a man says that all men want a harem of submissive, subservient women, should you be concerned? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If you could create your ideal pornography, what would it feature? Listen below. You can also find the

Episode 40: Polyam is Valid

What if you’re struggling to see the relationship you have as valid if they’re married to someone else? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: If a really kind person wanted to praise me, they'd say, if a really

Episode 32 - Dating a Colleague

If you fell for someone at work and they’re now off limits, should you keep pushing it? Is your partner giving you an unfair veto? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What are you a little addicted to? Listen below. You

Crush on a partner’s friend

My husband and I have been dating for four years and married for almost one. When we met, I was already polyam and had a long-term boyfriend. My relationship with this boyfriend was already starting to “cool” a bit, though, so I was free to jump in with my future

Should your partner date your friends?

My partner of one year and I are a monogamish couple. We haven’t had any other partners outside of each other, although there is an interested party (in him) now. I am fine with the interested party, but this is the first time we are putting our dynamic into

When a friend dates your partner

I’ve been in a non-monogamous relationship for a couple years. Unfortunately, I haven’t really had the courage to date anyone. My partner has but I don’t crush very easily. When I do bring up people I’m interested in it always requires a lot of processing my