Partner Wants Kink Play But Hides From Polyamory
Noticing a contradiction when a monogamous partner wants to touch others at kink events but won't engage with metamours?
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Responsibility and metamours
What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.
Episode 168 - Kitchen Table Drama
The hinge is not hinging, and then the two metas have to negotiate with each other like the hinge is a hostage.
Partner With Low Capacity Keeps Dating New People
How do you know when a partner is truly polysaturated or simply not prioritizing their relationship despite claims of low capacity?
Episode 166 - Exclusivity in Polyamory
Just because you're secondary doesn't mean you should accept being treated like you don't matter.
Partner Doesn't Want to Know
This polyamorous person wants more openness about their other relationships, but their monogamous partner prefers not to know anything about them.
Episode 162 - Setting Real Boundaries in Polyamory
You should never have to ask, 'What if someone crosses my boundary?' Because the boundary, in and of itself, by definition, should include what you will do if it is crossed.
Episode 160 - What Is A Boundary
How many times should you let someone violate your boundaries and can you rebuild trust after?
Couple Incompatibility
When social circles blend and you date within them, it can create complications.
Episode 159 - No Contact Metamour
When you’re no contact with a nesting metamour, can you make a relationship with your shared partner work?
Pausing Other Relationships
When a dyad decides to "pause" another relationship outside of the dyad, it causes significant issues.