Wanting equity as a secondary
Feeling unequal as a secondary partner? Learn how to ask for what you need without seeming competitive in your long-distance relationship.
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Responsibility and metamours
What emotional responsibilities do you have in a relationship and where do the end? How do you navigate relationships with metamours? These are for and about negotiation.
Breakup boundaries
Healing after breakup when your partner dates your ex. How to set boundaries and move forward while watching from the sidelines.
Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Disliking metamour boundaries
Your partner's girlfriend won't let you meet his friends. Is this boundary fair, or a sign of deeper control issues in polyamorous relationships?
Episode 93: Meeting Metamours
Sometimes people are jerks, but experiences teach us when to engage or step away. Explore metamour dynamics on Non-Monogamy Help.
Being a middleman
You're the bridge between your partner and his other partner. Now she's developed feelings for you too. Navigating this feels complicated.
Privacy boundaries
Your partner won't enforce privacy boundaries with his wife. When does his refusal to protect your relationship become a dealbreaker?
Episode 88: One Rule to Rule Them All
Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem it's designed to prevent. Explore this paradox on Non-Monogamy Help Episode 88.
Episode 87: Showering Rules
When having strict rules makes you feel controlled, coming to a compromise with a partner who wants a specific thing can seem impossible.
Left out of a thruple
Your husband's new relationship is leaving you out. After 10 years together, can you find your place in a thruple that wasn't designed for you?