Episode 98: Mixed Signals is a Signal Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Fighting for control My partner and I was considering playing solo in the lifestyle, but our first attempt was unsuccessful and left us confused and a bit hurt. We would like to try again on more solid ground, but not knowing where to go from here. Anything you can suggest that would help?
Trapped in guilt I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I've always been fine with 3somes, him sleeping with men, but about a year and a half ago I started advocating for ENM after researching it and realizing I have never wanted to be in a monogamous relationship.
Episode 96: Needing Distance After Dates Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Episode 91: Hierarchies and Ethics Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem that the rule is designed to prevent.
Episode 90: Breakup News Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem that the rule is designed to prevent.
Trouble accepting polyamory I’m new to polyamory. I’ve been married for 25 years & have 3 children. Long story short, my husband met someone online about 3 months ago. They have started a relationship though they have not met in person yet. She lives in another state. He will be going
Episode 87: Showering Rules When having strict rules makes you feel controlled, coming to a compromise with a partner who wants a specific thing can seem impossible.
Left out of a thruple My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We have kids, cars, a home, and careers built together. We've been off and on exploring non monogamy in many forms for about 7 of these years. We've tried dating together and it didn't
Realistic emotional expectations This may be way out there, but I'm currently struggling thru the beginning of my partner and I's attempt at non monogamy. We both wanted a hierarchical [polyamory] structure, but I quickly became overwhelmed with jealousy over everything. Because I have been feeling this way, he