Shunned in a triad
You're in a triad relationship but feel left out while your partners grow closer to each other. How do you address feeling like the third wheel?
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Jealousy and polyamory
How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.
Emotions are not demands
Struggling with jealousy in polyamory? Learn how to handle feelings that aren't rational when your partner spends time with others.
Episode 76: No Way Out
You feel trapped between your partner's demands and keeping your family together, and you're not sure how to move forward.
Hierarchies causing paranoia
Casual dating someone in an open relationship? Understand relationship hierarchies and what they mean when you're also seeing other people.
Episode 69: Self-Sacrificing Too Much
You gave 10 years to monogamy for your partner, but now they expect you to be thrilled about polyamory. Is that fair to you?
Episode 67: Temporary Monogamy
Your partner wants non-monogamy, but you don't. Could your resistance stem from anxiety or past trauma rather than true preference?
Hiding partners from each other
Your monogamous partner hid their polyamory. Learn how to rebuild trust and navigate this relationship betrayal together.
Fidelity and grief
You hid who you slept with during separation. She found out and is hurt. Can you rebuild trust after lying about infidelity?
Episode 63: Visualising Your Partner
You can't picture your partner with someone else without feeling awful—and you're not sure if opening up is even possible for you.
How to ask for reassurance
Ask for reassurance in polyamory without triggering withdrawal or guilt. Learn how to express jealousy to your partner effectively.