Episode 181 - One Penis Policies
Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.
Topic
Managing difficult emotions
Polyamory isn’t always pretty and it can sometimes bring a lot of emotional turmoil. People struggling with mental health issues may be especially struggling. Here are all the entries around managing your emotions.
When Your Polyamorous Partner Dates More Than You Do
Struggling when your polyamorous partner dates constantly while you don't? Learn how different dating styles work in non-monogamous relationships.
Episode 180 - From Cheating to Polyamory
Unresolved betrayal needs to be addressed before moving forward into polyamory, or it will easily become a tit-for-tat situation.
Plan Changes in Polyamory
An exploration of why permission-based rules fail during spontaneous plan changes and how to shift from "default time" to intentional scheduling.
Managing Jealousy in an Open Relationship
An exploration of the common conflict between jealousy and arousal in open dynamics and why specific approaches to dating can impact success.
Episode 177 - What "Not Serious" Means
It doesn't matter if you don't call your relationship serious. If you act as though it is, your brain will feel like it is anyway.
Don't Ask Don't Tell Ended New Relationship
This person ended a promising new relationship because their primary partner couldn't tolerate any mention of them, creating an unsustainable dynamic.
Hiding Another Relationship
When a new partner hides an open relationship and child and pressures you into considering a triad you don't want, it's not a good sign.
Partner Wants Kink Play But Hides From Polyamory
Noticing a contradiction when a monogamous partner wants to touch others at kink events but won't engage with metamours?
Episode 169 - Marriage and Polyamory
There is one throne and one person who can sit in that throne, and right now that's you—but you can be replaced.