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Relationship progression

Now that you have your relationship(s), where does it go from here? How do you deal with marriage or raising a family?

Episode 4: Getting Married as a Triad

Can you get married to the two loves of your life at the same time? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. https://anchor.fm/non-monogamy-help/episodes/Episode-4-Getting-Married-As-a-Triad-e1cgbdv You should also be able to find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Or, conversely,

Pregnancy and polyamory

We’ve been married for 5, together for 8. Open marriage for about 1.5 years. I’m pregnant (10wks), we also have an almost 3 year old and we have sex frequently but not as much in the last two weeks. Recently my husband has found a connection that

When should you express love?

I’m a twenty something who has only ever been in polyam/non-monog relationships. I’m currently living with a partner who I have been with for a year, who I’ll call Poppy in this email. I have another partner, who I’ll call Lilly, who lives with one

Polyamory after the birth of a new child

I’ve been in a relationship with my current boyfriend — or I should say husband — for a little over three years now. We got married a year ago just before our now one-year-old daughter was born. (Marriage doesn’t have so much meaning to us. It was more for practical

Turning a couple into a triad

CN: Question contains explicit sexual content. My husband and I have been in a monogamous relationship for five years, and married for three. For the last few months we’ve wanted to add a third member to our family. Two weeks ago we reconnected with a girl that we went

Successful solo polyamory and control

From monogamy to solo poly[amory]. How to do this? I’m breaking up with a live in partner to pursue solo polyamory — I don’t want to be part of a couple, and I don’t want my other relationships to be controlled by another person, but I do

Lack of polyamorous family role models?

Hi there! I am a 31 year old that identifies as female, bisexual, and kinky. I have a primary partner, as well as a secondary partner and a play partner that I see very occasionally. My dilemma is this — I really want to start a family in the next 1–

Stagnating vs. relationship escalator

I’m currently married to a wonderful man and in a relationship with a lovely boyfriend for the last eighteen months. This is my first foray into a serious relationship outside of my primary relationship, although I’ve been open with my husband since the start. I’m struggling a