Pausing Other Relationships
When a dyad decides to "pause" another relationship outside of the dyad, it causes significant issues.
Topic
Switching, closing and abuse
These entries are for those trying to figure out the right time to break up, regretting opening or wanting to close the relationship and also for those who may be in dangerous situations.
Trapped in a Thruple
It's always wise to maintain a sense of independence even when moving in with others.
Pretend Affair
Is it ethical non-monogamy to have an affair that you know is fake but the third party doesn't?
Regretting Polyamory
When your nervous system is going nuts, should you put a hold on polyamory.
Taking a Break in Polyamory
If you're struggling with polyamory, is taking a break to focus on monogamy a good idea?
No Longer Nesting
Moving from a nesting relationship to a long distance relationship will involve some grieving that is perfectly normal.
No Longer Nesting
Moving from a nesting relationship to a long distance relationship will involve some grieving that is perfectly normal.
Episode 141 - Making Amends
Everybody messes up in relationships but making amends isn’t always a one sided action. You have to work together to rebuild trust.
Episode 139 - Boundaries vs Rules
If you frequently don’t follow your boundaries with action, your brain could respond with anxiety because of the self-sabotage.
Unsatisfied With Secondary
You can't help but imagining a nesting relationship with someone who isn't interested in escalating.