Mismatched Expectations
How do you let go of the expectation of a relationship that isn't what you hoped it would be and let it be what it is?
Topic
Switching, closing and abuse
These entries are for those trying to figure out the right time to break up, regretting opening or wanting to close the relationship and also for those who may be in dangerous situations.
Episode 119: Brutal Honesty
Your partner outright tells you that they plan on prioritising someone over you. It’s harsh but is it what should happen?
Episode 114: Creeping Paranoia
A partner who reacts to a little bit of paranoia by accusing you of calling them a liar isn’t the best sign of moving forward in conflict in a relationship.
Accidental disclosure
Agreeing to things you don't actually want quite often creates a lot more problems than it needs to down the line.
Unwanted triad
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Episode 107: When To End It
If you’re not sure whether or not to stay together but you want to stay together for the children, is that a possibility in polyamory?
Monitoring your partner's phone
So my wife and I are working at possibly getting into (swinging, hotwife) life style. A guy reached out to me and wife agreed to give out number for the first time they were chatting and I got ghosted by him and she updated me on what was texted by
Episode 105: Becoming Monogamous
Therapy can’t make someone monogamous who doesn’t want to be and it can’t make someone non-monogamous who doesn’t want to be.
Episode 102: Clear Communication
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Location trackers in polyamory
I need some serious help with my relationship as my partner has cheated on me twice. We are both women, we met when we were 17 and we’ve been dating for two years now.
Both of us agreed from the start to be polyamorous, with the boundary that we