Gaslighting and polyamory
Feeling neglected in your open marriage? Learn to distinguish gaslighting from relationship conflict when your concerns get dismissed.
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Switching, closing and abuse
These entries are for those trying to figure out the right time to break up, regretting opening or wanting to close the relationship and also for those who may be in dangerous situations.
Changing your mind in polyamory
Tried polyamory to save your relationship but having second thoughts? Here's how to talk to your partner about wanting monogamy instead.
When a partner becomes violent
Partner became violent when opening the relationship. He's working on anger management—should you continue pursuing polyamory together?
When is the right time to end it?
Catching feelings for someone taken? Learn when it's time to walk away or if there's hope for something real—and how to stop wasting your time.
When you regret opening your relationship
You both agreed to open the relationship, but now you're panicking and feeling guilty whenever it actually happens—and you're not sure why.
How to break up in polyamory
Navigate honest breakups in polyamory: balance giving closure while protecting feelings when attraction fades but emotions run deep.
Switching back to monogamy
Tried polyamory but having doubts? Learn if monogamy is right for you and how to talk with your partner about it.