Episode 181 - One Penis Policies
Allowing a partner's anxieties to control behaviour is unfair not only to oneself, but also to the people being dated.
Lola Phoenix
When Your Polyamorous Partner Dates More Than You Do
Struggling when your polyamorous partner dates constantly while you don't? Learn how different dating styles work in non-monogamous relationships.
Episode 180 - From Cheating to Polyamory
Unresolved betrayal needs to be addressed before moving forward into polyamory, or it will easily become a tit-for-tat situation.
Plan Changes in Polyamory
An exploration of why permission-based rules fail during spontaneous plan changes and how to shift from "default time" to intentional scheduling.
Episode 179 - Non-Monogamy and Disability
Partners and friends can help with the admin burden of checking accessibility. That's what mutual aid is all about.
Navigating Non-Monogamy Post Affair
An analysis of whether non-monogamy can be sustainable when it begins through betrayal and why self-compassion is vital when facing a partner’s infidelity.
Episode 178 - Relationship Anarchy for Newbies
Two people could both be relationship anarchists and still not be compatible in terms of what they want or need out of a relationship.
Managing Jealousy in an Open Relationship
An exploration of the common conflict between jealousy and arousal in open dynamics and why specific approaches to dating can impact success.
Episode 177 - What "Not Serious" Means
It doesn't matter if you don't call your relationship serious. If you act as though it is, your brain will feel like it is anyway.
The "Heads Up" Rule
Learn why "heads up" rules often create more conflict than clarity and how to transition from permission-based agreements to healthy autonomy.