Episode 90: Breakup News
Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem it prevents. Hear why on Episode 90 of Non-Monogamy Help.
Lola Phoenix
Unclear communication
You're struggling to communicate what you're actually feeling, so your partner has no idea why you've pulled away—and now you're the bad guy.
Episode 89: Mismatched Drives
Sometimes a rule meant to prevent a problem creates the exact issue it's designed to stop. Explore mismatched desires in open relationships.
Privacy boundaries
You've asked for privacy boundaries, but your partner won't enforce them with his wife. When does his refusal to protect your relationship become a dealbreaker?
Episode 88: One Rule to Rule Them All
Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem it's designed to prevent. Explore this paradox on Non-Monogamy Help Episode 88.
Trouble accepting polyamory
Married 25 years, your husband started an online relationship. You love him but struggle with polyamory you didn't choose.
Episode 87: Showering Rules
When having strict rules makes you feel controlled, coming to a compromise with a partner who wants a specific thing can seem impossible.
Left out of a thruple
Your husband's new relationship is leaving you out. After 10 years together, can you find your place in a thruple that wasn't designed for you?
Episode 86: No Exes as Friends
Your new partner demands you stop being friends with an ex during grief. Is now really the time to push back on this ultimatum?
Realistic emotional expectations
Feeling jealous after opening your relationship? Learn what realistic emotional expectations actually look like and ease your worries.