Recognising your own needs
Supporting your partner's polyamory but unsure it's right for you? Learn to recognize your own needs and navigate this together.
Lola Phoenix
Episode 80: Trying to Convince
"You're trying to convince your partner to be polyamorous, but what if the real issue is that you can't convince them out of wanting monogamy?"
Shunned in a triad
You're in a triad relationship but feel left out while your partners grow closer to each other. How do you address feeling like the third wheel?
Episode 79: Outside Veto
Your partner wants to explore non-monogamy but you're monogamous—and now you're wondering if you've somehow failed them by not being enough.
Emotions are not demands
Struggling with jealousy in polyamory? Learn how to handle feelings that aren't rational when your partner spends time with others.
Episode 78: Not Good Enough
Your partner wants non-monogamy but you're left feeling like you're somehow not enough for them. Can you work through that?
Unrealistic personal expectations
You thought you were fine with swinging, but now you're developing feelings for someone else and realizing deeper issues remain.
Episode 77: Making the Leap
Your partner wants monogamy, but you think you're polyamorous. Do you end it or find another way? Episode 77 explores your options.
Struggling to find partners
Neurodivergent and new to dating? Learn to navigate polyamory's unspoken rules without feeling overwhelmed or dishonest.
Episode 76: No Way Out
You feel trapped between your partner's demands and keeping your family together, and you're not sure how to move forward.