Getting over a partner's sexual history
You're okay with your open relationship most days, but your partner's sexual history keeps triggering deep insecurity. How do you get past it?
Lola Phoenix
Episode 55: How Much is Too Much?
You want details about your partner's other relationships, but they think you're asking for too much. Where's the actual line?
The definition of love
When your partner thinks casual sex outside marriage is okay but you need monogamy, can your relationship survive this core value clash?
Episode 54: Sacrificing Too Much
Polyamory marriage sacrifices: finding the line between compromise and losing yourself before divorce becomes the only option.
Knowing too much
You know too much about your partner's other relationship and now it's causing you pain. Can you unknow what you've learned and move forward?
Episode 53: Forgiving Mistakes
Navigate tension when your metamour dislikes your partner. How do you defend them while respecting your metamour's valid concerns?
Lapsed desire
Your sex life faded after moving in together. Is it normal? Explore what causes desire to drop and practical ways to reignite the spark.
Episode 52: Anxious After Marriage
You got married and now the anxiety about non-monogamy feels unbearable—making you wonder if this lifestyle is really for you after all.
Episode 51: Conversion Therapy
You're done with polyamory and wondering if therapy can change you back to monogamy—but your partner isn't on board. What do you actually need?
Lying by omission
You've opened the relationship but hide your real boundaries and fears. Can that actually work? Navigating honesty when your fiancé wants an open relationship.