Should I date a couple?
Want to date a couple? Learn how to navigate a triad relationship, ask the right questions on your first date, and protect yourself from inequitable dynamics.
Lola Phoenix
Don’t you get jealous?
Does polyamory mean no jealousy? Learn what actually hurts more and why jealousy doesn't have to end your open relationship.
Episode 17: Delaying The Inevitable
You've agreed to open the relationship but hesitate to make the first move. Does it matter who dates first, or delay the inevitable?
Can I be replaced?
Feeling threatened in a poly relationship? Learn how to work through the fear of being replaced, even when you know it's not logical.
Episode 16: Just Deal With It
Your partner moved away and told you they're sleeping with other people—without asking if you were okay with it. How do you handle that?
Can you compromise on polyamory?
You agreed to swinging to make your husband happy, but you're miserable every time. Can you find middle ground on something this fundamental?
Episode 15: Fancying An Artist
You're attracted to someone and want to pursue it, but your partner isn't interested in opening up the relationship. How do you handle this?
How to find a unicorn
Looking for a third partner? Learn how to signal you're open to it and whether you're seeking polyamory or something else.
Episode 14: To Open or Not to Open
Your partner wants to explore. Do you end your marriage or give it a try? Hear both sides on Episode 14 of Non-Monogamy Help.
Open relationships after cheating
Your boyfriend cheated and now wants an open relationship. Learn how to navigate infidelity, discuss boundaries, and decide if this arrangement can work for your relationship.