9 ways toxic parenting impacted your non-monogamy
Your childhood shaped how you approach relationships. Here's how toxic parenting might be affecting your non-monogamy—and what to do about it.
Lola Phoenix
Thirteen things I wish I’d learned before choosing non-monogamy
Learn 13 hard-won lessons about non-monogamy that experts don't always teach you clearly—save yourself months of confusion and heartache.
Non-monogamy and fear
Drawn to polyamory but fear is holding you back? Learn what's actually worth worrying about versus noise when exploring non-monogamy.
The pressure to be 'into it'
Sex-positive spaces can feel pressuring. What happens when positivity leaves no room for your trauma, boundaries, or mental health concerns?
Why I don’t identify as “poly”
Why I stopped identifying as poly and switched to non-monogamous instead, plus my frustrations with the label and community.