Unwanted triad
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
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Jealousy and polyamory
How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.
Perfect polyamory
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Episode 106: The Third Wheel
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Episode 104: Primal Panic
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Wanting equity as a secondary
My sweetheart J and I are long distance, I am married with kids, we have been together 13 years, and are poly. J has a girlfriend of 2.5 years, both previously monogamous.
Him and I were friends and in love, and even actually lovers on and off, for years
Accepting your fear
I've been practicing non-monogamy since I first started dating (about 10 years ago), have had one long-term relationship and some shorter ones in that time. I've never really struggled emotionally, above what I would call "just feeling things": moments of jealousy, insecurity, etc. that pass within a day or so,
Episode 100: Monogamy Is Not A Belief
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Episode 99: Long Distance Jealousy
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Breakup boundaries
My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it
Episode 94: Clashing Triggers
It triggers you to open the relationship but it triggers your partner to close it. Is there any way to solve it?