Episode 186 - Communication Versus Gaslighting
Telling someone they're wrong when they see withdrawal of affection is gaslighting-adjacent, even if unintentional.
Topic
Jealousy and polyamory
How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.
Episode 184 - Dating a Co-Worker
Shrinking to make space in a partner's life only suffocates oneself and creates resentment that will eventually become unavoidable.
Episode 181 - One Penis Policies
When partner anxieties control your behavior, everyone loses. Dive into one penis policies on this week's Non-Monogamy Help episode.
When Your Polyamorous Partner Dates More Than You Do
Struggling when your poly partner dates more than you? Learn how to navigate different dating styles in non-monogamous relationships.
Managing Jealousy in an Open Relationship
An exploration of the common conflict between jealousy and arousal in open dynamics and why specific approaches to dating can impact success.
Feeling Aversion Instead of Compersion
After years in a "monogam-ish" relationship, this person struggles with visceral aversion when their wife starts seriously dating someone new.
Partner Wants Kink Play But Hides From Polyamory
Noticing a contradiction when a monogamous partner wants to touch others at kink events but won't engage with metamours?
Episode 158 - Hierarchies and Polyamory
When your primary partner only wants threesomes with other people and not you, that's a red flag. Find out why on Non-Monogamy Help.
Too Jealous for Polyamory
Manage jealousy in polyamory by focusing on your actions, not the emotion itself. Learn practical exercises to handle jealousy when it arises.
Episode 150 - Q&A
Get answers to your polyamory questions on long distance, guilt, NRE conflicts, opening up, and breaking free from monogamy in this Q&A episode.