Not Feeling Stable
Is it just insecurity or poor self-esteem or are there reasons for why this person might not feel 100% convinced by their partner's promises?
Topic
Jealousy and polyamory
How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.
Comparing Partner Numbers
When you and your partner seem to be playing polyamory chicken over who has the first relationship, how do you resolve it?
Episode 118: Don't Ask, Don't Tell
When you agree to a DADT relationship with a closeted partner but it’s not moving fast enough into a more polyamorous relationship.
Long Distance NRE
Your partner interrupts time together for a new long distance love and red alarms are blaring for you.
Unwanted triad
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Perfect polyamory
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Episode 106: The Third Wheel
Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.
Episode 104: Primal Panic
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Wanting equity as a secondary
My sweetheart J and I are long distance, I am married with kids, we have been together 13 years, and are poly. J has a girlfriend of 2.5 years, both previously monogamous.
Him and I were friends and in love, and even actually lovers on and off, for years
Accepting your fear
I've been practicing non-monogamy since I first started dating (about 10 years ago), have had one long-term relationship and some shorter ones in that time. I've never really struggled emotionally, above what I would call "just feeling things": moments of jealousy, insecurity, etc. that