Episode 104: Primal Panic
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Topic
Jealousy and polyamory
How do you deal with feelings of jealousy in polyamory? It's the question almost everyone asks -- and it comes up fairly often in columns and podcasts.
Wanting equity as a secondary
My sweetheart J and I are long distance, I am married with kids, we have been together 13 years, and are poly. J has a girlfriend of 2.5 years, both previously monogamous.
Him and I were friends and in love, and even actually lovers on and off, for years
Accepting your fear
I've been practicing non-monogamy since I first started dating (about 10 years ago), have had one long-term relationship and some shorter ones in that time. I've never really struggled emotionally, above what I would call "just feeling things": moments of jealousy, insecurity, etc. that
Episode 100: Monogamy Is Not A Belief
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Episode 99: Long Distance Jealousy
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Breakup boundaries
My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it
Episode 94: Clashing Triggers
It triggers you to open the relationship but it triggers your partner to close it. Is there any way to solve it?
Episode 93: Meeting Metamours
Sometimes people are jerks and sometimes experiences help us learn when we can also step away.
Episode 92: Unclear Boundaries
Sometimes people are jerks and sometimes experiences help us learn when we can also step away.
Realistic emotional expectations
This may be way out there, but I'm currently struggling thru the beginning of my partner and I's attempt at non monogamy. We both wanted a hierarchical [polyamory] structure, but I quickly became overwhelmed with jealousy over everything. Because I have been feeling this way, he