Episode 101: Reconciliation or Retribution
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Topic
Switching, closing and abuse
These entries are for those trying to figure out the right time to break up, regretting opening or wanting to close the relationship and also for those who may be in dangerous situations.
Breakup boundaries
My partner and I started sleeping with a guy 5 months ago, in a threesome arrangement. We did on occasion sleep with him individually as well, but ithe relationship had its start as a open sexual relationship. We eventually discussed poly and eveyone was into the idea and exploring it
Episode 97: When to Say When
Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?
Trapped in guilt
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I've always been fine with 3somes, him sleeping with men, but about a year and a half ago I started advocating for ENM after researching it and realizing I have never wanted to be in a monogamous relationship.
When to open or close a relationship
My question is how to separate times where we are monogamous and times where we are not? Me and my boyfriend flew right into open relationship, and now I’m have doubts. I think I only want us to be having sexual encounters (no romantic) and I want us to
Episode 86: No Exes as Friends
Your new partner demands, during a period of grief, that you stop being friends with an ex and now might not be the best time to push back on the ultimatum.
Changing agreements
My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We've been practicing polyam off and on throughout our marriage.
Recently we decided to open up. We made agreements and decided on our relationship dynamic.
He met someone and didn't say anything. I finally figured it
Episode 74: Dating Friendly
In starting out in polyamory, most people want to make rules — like no dating friends or family. It’s worth thinking more about that rule. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help.
Discussion Topic:
What makes a friend different from a partner to you?
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Being thrown away
I had until recently a relationship with a partner, we were together for 1,5 years. He was wonderful, fun, loving. He lives in a different city but would come to visit me every other month. He has another partner who he has been with for a little more than
Betraying yourself for others
My ex and I were together for a year and nine months. He was my first relationship and first sexual encounter. He is fifteen years my senior, and we met when I was eighteen. I didn't know about his actual age, or the fact he had a girlfriend