Episode 86: No Exes as Friends

Your new partner demands, during a period of grief, that you stop being friends with an ex and now might not be the best time to push back on the ultimatum.

Realistic emotional expectations

This may be way out there, but I'm currently struggling thru the beginning of my partner and I's attempt at non monogamy. We both wanted a hierarchical [polyamory] structure, but I quickly became overwhelmed with jealousy over everything. Because I have been feeling this way, he

Episode 85: Insecurity and Comparisons

You’re in a not so open minded city. How do you tell people you want to date that you’re currently in a polyamorous or open relationship?

Scared of competition

My wife and I just decided (well she did) that we should try and open relationship. At first I was devastated but we talked and over a few weeks we’ve been more honest about things than we ever have. We absolutely love each other, we have 3 kids and

Episode 84: Disclosure and Outing

You’re in a not so open minded city. How do you tell people you want to date that you’re currently in a polyamorous or open relationship?

No sign is a sign

I’ve been “hanging out” with J for about 3 years. We agreed in the beginning it would be an open friendship allowing us both to date and see other people. After 2 years of hanging out we both established we care for each other but haven’t set any

Episode 83: Recycled Dates

What happens when you’re trying non-monogamy for the first time, but you and your partner can’t come to an agreement on things like not going to the same places they’ve taken a metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic:

Changing agreements

My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We've been practicing polyam off and on throughout our marriage. Recently we decided to open up. We made agreements and decided on our relationship dynamic. He met someone and didn't say anything. I finally figured it

Episode 82: Dating Metamours

When your shared partner is making you both feel like you’re a triad when you’ve never agreed to that… it can get a little awkward. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic: Have you had your partner date another partner you’

Emotional sharing in polyamory

My husband and I have been open for a little over a year now. We closed for a period of time because he crossed multiple boundaries. I was the one to bring up being open. My issue right now is my partners unwillingness to really communicate. He claims he’s