Episode 88: One Rule to Rule Them All

Sometimes making a rule causes the exact problem it's designed to prevent. Explore this paradox on Non-Monogamy Help Episode 88.

Trouble accepting polyamory

Married 25 years, your husband started an online relationship. You love him but struggle with polyamory you didn't choose.

Episode 87: Showering Rules

When having strict rules makes you feel controlled, coming to a compromise with a partner who wants a specific thing can seem impossible.

Left out of a thruple

Your husband's new relationship is leaving you out. After 10 years together, can you find your place in a thruple that wasn't designed for you?

Episode 86: No Exes as Friends

Your new partner demands you stop being friends with an ex during grief. Is now really the time to push back on this ultimatum?

Realistic emotional expectations

Feeling jealous after opening your relationship? Learn what realistic emotional expectations actually look like and ease your worries.

Episode 85: Insecurity and Comparisons

You’re in a not so open minded city. How do you tell people you want to date that you’re currently in a polyamorous or open relationship?

Scared of competition

Opening your relationship but scared your wife will find someone better? Learn how to work through that fear of inadequacy.

Episode 84: Disclosure and Outing

You’re in a not so open minded city. How do you tell people you want to date that you’re currently in a polyamorous or open relationship?

No sign is a sign

You've been waiting for him to commit while he dates around, and now you're wondering if his silence on where this is going means it never will.