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Consent and cuckolding

I am a widower of 2 years, I was married for 31 years and the last 10 years I was a cuckold to my wife. In the last two years I have been listening to podcasts and reading blogs on the subject of cuckolding (sometime called “Hotwifing”) and one question

Episode 44: You Don’t Need 5 Partners

What happens when you struggle to find partners but your domestic partner does not? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What often impairs your decision making process? Lack of confidence, impatience desire to please, overexcitement… Listen below. You can also find the

Polyamory as a last chance

My marriage of 13 years is about to end due to my wife’s infidelity. She cheated in 2010 and this past summer in the wake of my brother’s suicide she dove into an emotional affair with a long-time friend of both of us. This experience has fractured numerous

Episode 43: What If It Ends?

What happens when our biggest fear is losing our current relationship? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: In your worst fears, what might your colleagues at work be criticising you for behind your back? Listen below. You can also find the podcast

Gender roles and non-monogamy

I’m in a monogamous relationship and I’ve been in this relationship for 4+ years. We’ve talked about non-monogamy but my partner is quite against it. What makes things worse is I cheated on her last year with a man. We slept together twice before I told her

Episode 42: The Dreaded Veto

When you’ve conceded to many rules but your partner demands you dump another, what do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What do you most regret so far? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple,

Do gay men have to be non-monogamous?

I’m a gay man (24) and I’ve never been in a serious relationship, and right away I can anticipate that the advice might be I don’t know what I want yet. But I feel really strongly that I do. I’ve thought about this since I started

Episode 41: No Rules Just Wrong

In trying establish rules, does that make you less “ready” for non-monogamy or polyamory? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: List the now guilt inducing occasions when you were especially mean to certain people. Listen below. You can also find the podcast

How to define cheating

Here is my situation. I’ve been with my partner for four months, we started our relationship as another one of mine was ending. I definitely jumped in full force to the relationship, partly because of my heartbreak over the previous one. It turned out to work out really well,

An ex wants to make it right

I was at this relationship that ended badly last night. I only had a few flings after deciding that monogamy wasn’t for me, but I studied a lot, and still do. So I met this guy through some friends in common, he was a non monogamist too, and a