Preventing hurt feelings

Worried about hurting your partner's feelings in non-monogamy? Learn how to navigate multiple relationships with compassion and honesty.

Episode 66: Hidden Metamour

When your partner hides a relationship, does omission count as lying? Discover why transparency matters in non-monogamy, even without official labels.

HSV 2 and polyamory

HSV-2 diagnosis creates tension in your open relationship. Navigate protecting yourself while preserving the life you've built together.

Episode 65: No Longer Primary

You were once their priority, but now you're not. How do you fight apathy when the person you want to build a life with is drifting away?

Hiding partners from each other

Your monogamous partner hid their polyamory. Learn how to rebuild trust and navigate this relationship betrayal together.

Episode 64: What Rules to Have

"You want rules to protect your relationship, but will they actually work? Find out if the boundaries you're planning might backfire."

Fidelity and grief

You hid who you slept with during separation. She found out and is hurt. Can you rebuild trust after lying about infidelity?

Episode 63: Visualising Your Partner

You can't picture your partner with someone else without feeling awful—and you're not sure if opening up is even possible for you.

Rules about love

When your love rules backfire: Why strict boundaries in relationships sometimes push partners away instead of bringing you closer together.

Episode 62: More Metamour Toxicity

Your partner's other partner isn't good for your metamour, but you're unsure what role you should actually play in their relationship drama.