Episode 56: Escalating Past a Metamour

Your partner is escalating your relationship and it’s making your metamour jealous. What can you do? *A metamour is a person who also dates your partner who you do not date. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic: What does an “escalation”

Getting over a partner's sexual history

I am 34 years old, female and since more than 10 years I am in an open relationship with my boyfriend. We follow the concept of a “primary relationship” (so most of our daily life we live like a monogamous couple) but we are free to have external sexual contacts.

Episode 55: How Much is Too Much?

How much is too much to know about your partner’s other relationships? Where is the line? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Do you believe in first impressions? Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other

The definition of love

So I’m monogamous one hundred percent I want no one else but my man, he thinks monogamy is not natural, and sex is sex and primal and you can be in a relationship with one person and fuck someone else and that’s ok. Well to me it is

Episode 54: Sacrificing Too Much

When you're trying your best with polyamory but it feels like if you don't get it right, you may get divorced. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Should you sacrifice for your relationship? What is worth sacrificing? Listen

Knowing too much

I am a 40 year old solo poly[am] woman in a relationship with a poly man who is in a long term nesting relationship with his common-law wife. They have been together over 25 years; I’ve been with him for just over 3. I’ve heard you tell

Episode 53: Forgiving Mistakes

You have a metamour who thinks someone you're dating is a bad person. What do you do? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. 💡Discussion Topic: What do you think about forgiveness? When should one be forgiven? Listen to Episode 53. You can

Lapsed desire

When my wife and I first started seeing each other, our sex life was great. It was new and exciting, if not slightly more subdued than to what I was normally accustomed. After we moved in together, it seemed like our sex life became far less active than before, and

Episode 52: Anxious After Marriage

Anxiety can often become so overwhelming that you begin thinking non-monogamy just isn't for you. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is your ideal living situation? With or without partners? How would you organise your space? Listen below. You

Episode 51: Conversion Therapy

What happens when you're done with polyamory and want to seek therapy to convert you to a monogamous person? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned from previous relationships? Listen below. You can