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Episode 26: Flirting or Cheating

What if your partner has always flirted in a way you define is cheating and now they want to be non-monogamous? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic - True or False: “I know how to stand up for myself”. Listen below. You

Polyamory as a treatment for infidelity

I’m 33 and I live with my girlfriend who is 28. We met 3 years ago while she still had a boyfriend. A that time I was physically attracted to her (she is very beautiful) but as I knew she had a boyfriend I did not approach her. However,

Episode 25: First Time Jitters

If your first foray into non-monogamy is cheating — but it’s not sexual — are you doomed? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic - If you had a memoir,

Energy for everyone but you

What I’m struggling with is that my partner has very little energy and is anti-social with PTSD attached. Because of this, I am the primary caretaker of our daughter and I also tend my partners daily needs. I become insecure when my partner manages to muster the energy to

Episode 24: Rules Won’t Save You

Can you make enough rules to prevent your partner from leaving you? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Check out the Patreon for the discussion topic. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic: Which better

Are your needs ‘reasonable’?

My sense is that all triangulation is somewhat dysfunctional, but I’m not sure. For example, if I ask my partner out on a certain night, he can say “Let me check my calendar and get back to you”, or he can say “I want to but my other partner

Episode 23: Abusive Metamours

What happens when you feel pressured to associate with an abusive metamour? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. We’re also introducing discussion topics this week. 💡Discussion Topic: What slightly unhealthy things feel attractive in a partner? How might this relate to your relationships

Unethical hierarchies in polyamory

I have been currently investing my time in a polygamous relationship. My partner and I have been talking since February and I would say officially together since March as we are now fluid bonded and consider ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend. I am however his secondary partner and therefore our relationship

Episode 22: Backup Wife

A husband asks a wife to open their relationship after cancer, with some troubling caveats. That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: List five ways you are difficult to live with. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and

Possessiveness and polyamory

It feels like I’m at the end of my rope right now. I don’t know what to do and all the articles and books I read and mental health experts I speak to don’t seem to help. Hence, I humbly submit the following to you. I find