Episode 28: Unhealthy or Incompatible

What do you do if your partner wants no restrictions but you need reassurance that what you have means something? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: What do you think of public displays of affection (PDA)? Listen below. You can also find

Why couples always want a triad

I’m looking for some advice on how to add someone to our relationship. My husband and I recently discussed opening our marriage up to another woman with the end goal of having a closed triad but in reality there’s only one woman in my mind. She’s a

Episode 27: Signs of Seriousness

How do you know your relationship is ‘serious’? Is asking about it going to bug your partner too much? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic: Would you lie to make your partner happy? When does a good lie become a bad lie?

Metamour makes all the rules

My partner J and I have been dating almost a year, though due to our schedules/long distance we only hang out 1–2 weekends on average a month. We call and text often. We tell each other we love each other. J has a long-term (several years) nesting partner,

Episode 26: Flirting or Cheating

What if your partner has always flirted in a way you define is cheating and now they want to be non-monogamous? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Discussion Topic - True or False: “I know how to stand up for myself”. Listen below. You

Polyamory as a treatment for infidelity

I’m 33 and I live with my girlfriend who is 28. We met 3 years ago while she still had a boyfriend. A that time I was physically attracted to her (she is very beautiful) but as I knew she had a boyfriend I did not approach her. However,

Episode 25: First Time Jitters

If your first foray into non-monogamy is cheating — but it’s not sexual — are you doomed? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic -  If you had a memoir,

Energy for everyone but you

What I’m struggling with is that my partner has very little energy and is anti-social with PTSD attached. Because of this, I am the primary caretaker of our daughter and I also tend my partners daily needs. I become insecure when my partner manages to muster the energy to

Episode 24: Rules Won’t Save You

Can you make enough rules to prevent your partner from leaving you? That’s what’s on this week’s episode of Non-Monogamy Help. Check out the Patreon for the discussion topic. Listen below. You can also find the podcast on Spotify, Apple, and other providers. Discussion Topic: Which better

Are your needs ‘reasonable’?

My sense is that all triangulation is somewhat dysfunctional, but I’m not sure. For example, if I ask my partner out on a certain night, he can say “Let me check my calendar and get back to you”, or he can say “I want to but my other partner