Energy for everyone but you

You're the caregiver while your partner has energy for dating. How do you address this imbalance without damaging the relationship?

Episode 24: Rules Won’t Save You

You're afraid your partner will leave, so you keep adding more rules. But will stricter rules actually keep them from going?

Are your needs ‘reasonable’?

Wondering if your relationship needs are reasonable? Find out what to ask for—and how to communicate without triangulation.

Episode 23: Abusive Metamours

When your partner's new partner is abusive, how do you set boundaries? Tips for protecting your relationship in this difficult situation.

Unethical hierarchies in polyamory

Explore unethical hierarchies in polyamory: when secondary relationships are limited by primary-partner rules. Is this fair to everyone involved?

Episode 22: Backup Wife

Husband wants to open marriage after cancer diagnosis with controlling conditions. Should you protect yourself or risk pushing him away?

Possessiveness and polyamory

Struggling with jealousy in polyamory? Explore possessive feelings, open relationship challenges, and find strategies that actually work for you.

Episode 21: Walking on Eggshells

Your partner's other partner makes you feel like you're constantly doing something wrong. But is the tension really about what you're doing?

Parenting and polyamory

Learn how to balance polyamory, parenting, and your relationship. Explore dating again while managing a career and raising your preschooler.

Monogamous partner in non-monogamy

Your partner wants to open the relationship, but monogamy feels non-negotiable. How to navigate this conflict with support and honesty.