Polyamory and borderline personality disorder

Navigating polyamory with BPD: managing intense relationships, emotional spirals, and multiple partners while healing and finding balance.

When should you involve metamours?

New to polyamory? Learn when to involve your metamours after a messy breakup and how to navigate unreciprocated feelings together.

Is polyamory just a way to cheat ethically?

Wondering if polyamory could justify your feelings for someone else? Explore whether it's ethical or just cheating rebranded.

How to get over your partner seeing other people

Struggling with your partner seeing others? Learn to process jealousy, rebuild trust, and navigate open relationships successfully.

Is opening your relationship worth it?

Your wife wants ethical non-monogamy after 15 years. Wondering if opening your relationship is worth the risk? Here's what to consider.

Turning a couple into a triad

You want a triad with your husband and female friend, but after one encounter, dynamics shifted unexpectedly. How do you navigate this?

When you should be happy, but you’re not

Your husband wants polyamory but won't let you explore it. You're struggling with this unfair dynamic after years of infidelity.

Hierarchies and emotional responsibility

Navigate couples privilege denial in triads and manage emotional labor when partners won't take responsibility for your insecurity.

Successful solo polyamory and control

You're breaking up with your partner to pursue solo polyamory, but aren't sure how to actually do it—or what to expect along the way.

Useless Polyam Advice: Jealousy vs. Fear

You're feeling insecure about polyamory and assume it's jealousy — but what if it's actually fear? Here's why that distinction matters.