Perfect polyamory

Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.

Episode 106: The Third Wheel

Dating two people who have a history together is going to trigger some anxiety within you. Maybe you’re not jealous — you’re just normal.

Monitoring your partner's phone

Your partner's hiding texts from someone you agreed to cut off. How do you address this broken trust without invading her privacy?

Episode 105: Becoming Monogamous

Therapy can’t make someone monogamous who doesn’t want to be and it can’t make someone non-monogamous who doesn’t want to be.

Dealing with a long visit

Manage anxiety during your partner's 16-day visit with their long-distance partner. Tips for handling the change in routine.

Episode 104: Primal Panic

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Wanting equity as a secondary

Feeling unequal as a secondary partner? Learn how to ask for what you need without seeming competitive in your long-distance relationship.

Episode 103: Rose Tinted Glasses

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?

Choosing polyamory to keep a partner

Your wife cheated and wants polyamory. You're hurt but trying to support her—can opening your relationship after infidelity actually work?

Episode 102: Clear Communication

Your partner comes home from a date and needs reassurance, but you can’t give it in that moment. Is this something to overcome?