Hierarchies causing paranoia

Casual dating someone in an open relationship? Understand relationship hierarchies and what they mean when you're also seeing other people.

Episode 71: Feelings and Friends

You make rules to protect your relationship, but they don't actually stop the thing you're afraid of. How do you break that cycle?

Ethical vs healthy

Can you keep casual relationships ethical in ENM? Explore if it's truly possible and what it takes to navigate primary partnerships responsibly.

Episode 70: Half Ghosting

Your mutual partner ghosted you but kept seeing your long-term partner. How do you process rejection when it's only half happening?

Regret after opening

You agreed to wait on opening your marriage, but it happened anyway. Now you're questioning if it was right and how to move forward.

Episode 69: Self-Sacrificing Too Much

You gave 10 years to monogamy for your partner, but now they expect you to be thrilled about polyamory. Is that fair to you?

Be your own game changer

Can a V relationship built on an affair create real intimacy? Explore how to build trust and authenticity in your polyamorous dynamic.

Episode 68: Mismatched Labels

Your partner identifies as polyamorous but you see yourself as non-monogamous. Does the label difference mean you're fundamentally incompatible?

Becoming a third

Becoming a Third: Learn what it means joining an established couple, plus emotional dynamics and real expectations you should know about.

Episode 67: Temporary Monogamy

Your partner wants non-monogamy, but you don't. Could your resistance stem from anxiety or past trauma rather than true preference?