Episode 68: Mismatched Labels

Your partner identifies as polyamorous but you see yourself as non-monogamous. Does the label difference mean you're fundamentally incompatible?

Becoming a third

Becoming a Third: Learn what it means joining an established couple, plus emotional dynamics and real expectations you should know about.

Episode 67: Temporary Monogamy

Your partner wants non-monogamy, but you don't. Could your resistance stem from anxiety or past trauma rather than true preference?

Preventing hurt feelings

Worried about hurting your partner's feelings in non-monogamy? Learn how to navigate multiple relationships with compassion and honesty.

Episode 66: Hidden Metamour

When your partner hides a relationship, does omission count as lying? Discover why transparency matters in non-monogamy, even without official labels.

HSV 2 and polyamory

HSV-2 diagnosis creates tension in your open relationship. Navigate protecting yourself while preserving the life you've built together.

Episode 65: No Longer Primary

You were once their priority, but now you're not. How do you fight apathy when the person you want to build a life with is drifting away?

Hiding partners from each other

Your monogamous partner hid their polyamory. Learn how to rebuild trust and navigate this relationship betrayal together.

Episode 64: What Rules to Have

"You want rules to protect your relationship, but will they actually work? Find out if the boundaries you're planning might backfire."

Fidelity and grief

You hid who you slept with during separation. She found out and is hurt. Can you rebuild trust after lying about infidelity?