Bare minimum in relationships

You've been giving your all for years, but your partner won't tell you what they actually want. How do you know if you're asking for too much?

Ultimatums and polyamory

Your wife gave you an ultimatum: close the marriage or end your other relationship. Here's how to navigate this polyamory crisis.

Treating “secondaries” poorly

Dating men in open relationships? Learn how to advocate for your needs when you're a "secondary" partner with little say in the rules.

Incompatibility and polyamory

You're monogamous and she's polyamorous -- you're nomadic and she's rooted in one place. Can this relationship actually work?

When should you express love?

Juggling feelings for three people? Discover when and how to express love across multiple relationships without causing hurt or confusion.

When you regret opening your relationship

You both agreed to open the relationship, but now you're panicking and feeling guilty whenever it actually happens—and you're not sure why.

When your partner hates your metamour

Your partner despises your other partner—and you're caught in the middle. Can you fix this, or do you need to make a harder choice?

Do the intense feelings in polyamory ever end?

You're overwhelmed by feelings for multiple partners and wonder if the emotional intensity ever gets easier to manage in polyamory.

Should you do monogamy if you can’t?

Naturally polyamorous but committed to monogamy? Explore if this relationship can work or if you're both just hoping the other will change.

Can one person meet all your needs?

In love with someone else and wondering if you're polyamorous? Here's how to figure out what you actually want—and tell your wife.