When you don’t want to open your relationship

Your partner just told you she's polyamorous and wants to open the relationship. You don't want that — so what are your actual options here?

Balancing imbalances in polyamory

Rebuild trust after toxic polyamory. Learn to overcome possessiveness and distrust to create healthier dynamics for everyone involved.

When someone else’s rules become yours

You agreed to safer sex rules with your lover's wife, but now they're affecting your other relationship. Whose boundaries are you protecting?

Don't ask, don't tell in polyamory

Stuck in a "don't ask, don't tell" polyamory setup? Learn how to move toward honesty without causing conflict in your open relationship.

Managing your partner’s emotions

Stop walking on eggshells. Learn how to handle your partner's insecurity without losing yourself when opening your relationship.

Setting boundaries with metamours

Uncomfortable with your partner's new partner? Learn what boundaries you can set and how to establish them respectfully.

When your partner pulls a veto

Your partner's bad experience with polyamory is making him ask you to end your relationship. Can you refuse without ending polyamory itself?

Sex positivity, demisexuality and polyamory

Demisexual and polyamorous? Learn how to balance emotional intimacy needs with an open relationship for deeper connection with your partner.

When a friend dates your partner

Navigating non-monogamy when a new friend flirts with your partner. Tips for handling jealousy, setting boundaries, and keeping friendships intact.

Is polyamory just a phase?

Your partner moved abroad for her career and now wants polyamory. Is it just a phase or something deeper? We explore this relationship question.